Unspoken Rules

Does your family have any unspoken rules, also referred to as implicit rules?   I know, sometimes it is hard to answer that question because the rules themselves hide in the shadows.  We can think of the spoken rules that our parents had, maybe a curfew time of midnight, or the rule of having the chores done before dad got home from work.  Unspoken rules are different, they have never been talked about or explained yet there is an expectation that you will follow them.  Often times when they are not followed there are harsh consequences.  This is very confusing to…